
Remembering
Dad (1942–2022) and Grandma (1920–2021)



The Voice in My Head
by Thom Bianco
July 13, 2022
To feel any feeling,
so deeply,
about another person
is rooted in love.
The deeper the roots,
the stronger,
and more vibrant,
are the branches,
and leaves,
and thorns,
and blossoms,
that grow above.
The beautiful
and wonderful tangle,
of what shows above is there,
as a result of a root system that has supported it
and allowed it to grow.
The seasons change,
and the influence
of the seasons,
changes the plant,
but the roots are constant, and continue to feed,
and nourish,
and support the plant throughout its entire lifetime.
They will always be there
for the entire duration
of the plant’s showing itself in life.
The plant is itself a vibrant, and growing,
and changing element
of expression,
but the roots made it so.
And though the roots
are covered,
and buried,
and not seen,
they are always the source of the plant’s expression. And no matter how
sunshiny
and pleasant,
or stormy and cold,
the elements surrounding the plant become,
the plant survives,
and lives,
and prospers,
because of the roots that sprouted it
and grew it,
and give it its life!
**Posted with permission from Thom Bianco, who wrote this poem after I said my dad “will always be the voice in my head, helping me be a better person.” Thank you, Thom. You have a gift. Keep writing!


